I just ended a "friendship" that's lasted a few years - a few years too long. I normally prefer to be on good terms with people, but with this person I generally chose to not to talk to him, as he intentially (and admitedly) would push my buttons every time for fun. According to him, if I want to be his friend I just have to deal with it because that's "the way he is".
And today when the question was raised as to whether we should keep talking to each other, I decided no. Anyone who is indifferent when it comes to being in a relationship should not be in one.
I wrote some other stuff, but I just deleted it because I know I wouldn't want him to read it. And, to be honest, I don't think he really deserves the time, the space, or the effort. Out of sight, out of mind.
And today when the question was raised as to whether we should keep talking to each other, I decided no. Anyone who is indifferent when it comes to being in a relationship should not be in one.
I wrote some other stuff, but I just deleted it because I know I wouldn't want him to read it. And, to be honest, I don't think he really deserves the time, the space, or the effort. Out of sight, out of mind.
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It's always tough to end a friendship -- even if it is just a "friendship". It's good that that you could see he wasn't bringing (I assume, correct me if I'm wrong) anything positive into your life, and took steps to fix that.
Being surrounded by people who make you angry, upset..who don't bring out the best in you....it's not worth it.
Who is it, btw? email me.
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Sarah, at 11:26 AM
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